When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what’s a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you?

Call me Lenny/Leni · 2Y

When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what’s a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you?

UlyssesT [he/him] · 2Y

If they treat service workers poorly, that’s already a red flag for me. Even if the service is disappointing somehow, being an asshole to them is still a red flag to me.